Sunday, December 19, 2010

Do not let people to decide you...

do not let people to decide your pleasures and pains..!
Many people are struggling to live their lives according to their beliefs and their desires. Too often people organize their lives avoiding to not displease their families, their friends and in some cases their children. 

If your life is organized around these obligations, you must surely feel a huge weight on your shoulders and above all you probably find that life is very demanding. Understand the influence of others can affect all areas of your life. If you let the influence of others affect your choices and decisions, it is almost certain that in most cases you will not act according to your values, your desires and your aspirations. 

The negative effects to please everyone is devastating to your self-esteem, devastating to the achievement of your personal projects, your personal development and the fulfillment of your dreams. If you prevent yourself to achieve your dreams because of public opinion and influence of others, what motivates you to get up each morning? 

I do not mean to dismiss anything other say, I'm proposing to simply make your choice based on your beliefs, your values, your desires, your abilities and your dreams. When you've made your choice, there will certainly be people who will disagree with your choices and that's normal. All you have to do is to calmly explain why you do it and if he does not respect your choices and decisions is no longer your problem, anyway how can he stop you since you're the person who controls your decisions.

Whatever you do in life, there is always someone to tell you that you have not made the right choice or that your ideas are inadequate. Listen to your heart and your mind and live life according to you, while respecting others. It is not always easy for others to accept the fact that you live according to your choice and not based on what they want you to do or to be. At some point it will eventually let go and accept your way of life. The time always ends by overcoming the most stubborn.

Do not let people to decide your pleasures and pains..! Finding yourself is a time of harmony because you develop that philosophy...that will carry you throughout the rest of your life. When you love yourself and who you are, you will savor and enjoy both life's pain and pleasures. 


  1. నమ్మకం దాని అర్దం ఏంటో కాస్త చెబుతారా...ఎవర్నినమ్మాని.. మీరన్నట్టు ఫిలాసఫి చదివిన వాడే నాఫీజులు తీసాడు నమ్మకంగా...అక్కడ వాడు అనుకున్నది సాదించడంకోసం...నానా యాగీచేసి ఏదుటి వాని దొంగను చేసి మొత్తనికి అనుకున్నది సాదించాడు..ఇక్కడ మనస్సు మనస్సాక్షి అనేవి చిన్నపదాలు అంతే స్వార్దం ఎదుటివాడు ఒకప్పడి స్నేహితుడైనా తన స్వార్దం కోసం ఎదుటివాని మనస్సు భాదపడుతుందని కూడా ఆలోచించరు ..అయినా ఓ మనిషిని నమ్మినతరువాత పరిస్థితులను బట్టి ఆలోచనలు మారుతాయా...ఎందుకలా..? మీరు రాసింది బాగుంది కాని అవన్ని వాస్తవాలు కాదు వాస్తవంగా కనిపించే అబద్దాలు...కొన్ని నిజాలు లాగానే వున్నాయి కాని నేను నమ్మను

  2. What all, I said was...
    Believe yourself!
    And, believe in yourself!!
    Mimmalni meru nammandi..,merevaro meeke teliyani garuuu...